I do NOT want to use Resonate to find Dates, how should I do my Settings for Friend interest only?

No worries, in Resonate, the music layer is on top and music rules all. So we want you to get what you want and use Resonate the way you want.
If you do not want to use Resonate to find Dates, when you are asked if you would like to use Resonate for dating during onboarding, just choose Not Yet. If you change your mind later, just go to your Profile and select Dating Preferences and then choose I’m interesting in Dating: Men, Women or Both.
You can change your Dating Preferences at any time.
When your Dating Preference is set to Not Interested in Dating Now, then your Profile shows Interested in Friends. If your Dating Preference is set to Men, Women or Both, then your Profile page shows Interested in whoever you have indicated with a small red heart icon.
Whenever you see a small red heart icon in the top right hand corner of another user’s profile picture (Discover People, Connections and Chat), that immediately tells you that this user is interested in Dating. Conversely, if there is no small red heart icon in the top right hand corner of another user’s profile picture, then you will know that this user is not interested in Dating.